Trust is one of the most important elements in a relationship and if you’re expecting any type of romantic commitment to last, you have to rely on its power to connect and bring two people together come what may.
Couples in a long term relationship have either mastered the art of Trust or are now slowly struggling to maintain it. This is because, just like love and respect, trust has to be earned over and over and should be able to withstand any storm that comes it is the way.
Here are the things that you should remember:
First, trust in your own worth:
You have to overcome your worst insecurities if you want to be a person capable of trusting others. You have to believe that you’re good enough for the person you love, that you’re worth their time and attention because this is where you develop the confidence to trust in their commitment. In other words, the first step that you have to take is to trust yourself and to believe in your own worth.
Have faith in your partner’s love for you:
Secondly, you have to believe that you’re worthy to be loved. Have faith in your partner’s love for you because this is where genuine trust resides. If you believe in them and how they feel about you, there will be no room for doubts and uncertainties, no room for suspicions and fear.
Value honesty and take time to listen:
Communicate often and do your part to be involved in the conversation by being an honest speaker and a good listener. By creating this refuge of honesty and openness, you can both express your inner feelings without hesitation and fear of being judged. Most of the strongest relationships are built on the foundations of honesty and truth, so make sure you’re doing it right.
Talk about the things that matter:
Don’t hesitate to point out issues and problems that can potentially ruin your relationship. It’s okay to be critical of your partner and how they do their part, but you should not also turn a blind eye to your shortcomings. Maintain and build trust in your relationship by having the courage to talk about the things that matter and to not be afraid to admit if mistakes are made.
Don’t be scared to ask questions:
The only way to develop and maintain trust is by allowing truth and honesty to prevail at all times – and the only way to let them in your relationship is by asking the right questions without being scared of and judged for it. Ask them about the things that have been bothering you for a while; ask your partner about an incident that made you feel doubtful of their love for you. You deserve to know the answer. Go ahead, and be brave.
Develop a connection beyond romance:
Trust is one of the things that cannot easily be gained. One has to earn it and you have to keep working on it every day of your life. It may sound exhausting to constantly sustain this important element in your relationship but it’s not that hard, as long as you value truth as much as you value love.
However, remember that happiness in a relationship does not only depend on the amount of love that you give but it also relies on important values such as trust, respect and commitment – and everything is equally important – so make sure you don’t take any of them for granted.